The public apology seems to be fully in vogue. With the recent arrests of several (more) NFL players there is the obligatory public apology issued. Usually this statement is released by the players agent and seems to be a “cover all bases” type of apology. No heart felt remorse. No drilling down to a fundamental problem with the need to address. More like “I’m sorry that I got caught” sentiment.
Has the apology lost it’s value? Can we offer a better opton in our lives? Must every problem be managed with an automatic apology that seems more mechanical than real?
When I read that a person that was caught for a third time has issued an apology (again) I find it hard to believe that they mean what they say or will work to stay out of trouble. If you don’t mean it, don’t say it. Actions do speak louder than words.
