I had the opportunity to speak with a number of people this past weekend about why we do the things we do. The conversations centered on coaches and teachers and the perceived intent of their activities. Without exception, we all had examples of both good and bad and there really wasn’t much of a middle ground. It’s easy to pick apart the actions of others and to be critical of their work.
While the topic is troubling and we are quick to find those around us that may not be doing things for the right reasons perhaps change starts with each of us as individuals. Are we living our lives for the right reasons? Are we in “it” with the intent to make our work, marriage or relationships better? What can we do to demonstrate a true interest and commitment to the things that we do?
Be honest with ourselves and follow through is a start.
